Anonymous #1 1d

exactly, and like why are you more concerned about a potential baby’s future life than a currently existing woman’s present life??

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Anonymous #4 1d

Ok thx for sharing

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Anonymous #3 1d

Thx for allowing an open space to agree to disagree on topics

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Anonymous #5 1d

Properly taxing* the wealthy

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Anonymous shroomsandmusic 1d

So actually murder would imply that it’s a living breathing person when it in reality is not. My claim is that if a woman does not want to be pregnant, she, under no circumstances, should be forced to continue to be pregnant

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Anonymous OP 1d

I encourage you to look up videos of abortions being performed and tell me it’s not murder.

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Anonymous #4 1d

This is gonna sound awful so hear me out. I don’t think there’s anything inherently wrong with aborting when you know with complete certainty that the baby would be severely disabled. Most parents die before their kids do, if their child is in that category of being severely disabled, other arrangements will likely need to be made for their care, either by carefully selecting a caregiver/facility (which who can say if those plans will fall through or not) or… (1/2)

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Anonymous OP 1d

… the child is left to the mercy of the state. With how things are going as of late, I wouldn’t trust the state with the average child, let alone one who has extreme needs. If parents are unable or unwilling to raise a child with those needs, then they likely will be left to the mercy of the state anyway. I’m not saying this is how it should be, but unfortunately we live in the worst timeline. My main point is that if a woman does not want to be pregnant for any reason, she shouldn’t have to

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Anonymous shroomsandmusic 1d

No thanks, I have no interest in watching a medical procedure being performed, im a little squeamish

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Anonymous shroomsandmusic 1d

I’m all for consequences of your actions if they only affect you. But birthing a whole child as a “consequence” is now affecting multiple people, that child could grow up with a mom/family that resents them for being born or go into foster care and deal with the trauma that causes. Even if the child was given away and adopted they can still deal with the issues of feeling abandoned or like they don’t belong. Making a woman birth a whole ass kid as a punishment is stupid and unfair to all🤷🏼‍♀️😬

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Anonymous shroomsandmusic 1d

You got nothing better to do but doomscroll on the Girl Talk yy? Lmao

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Anonymous #1 1d

A child potentially facing hardship doesn’t mean their life has any less value than mine or yours. Instead of viewing abortion as the given right to all women who could easily choose not to have sex. We could improve the Foster care system These women can go to a pregnancy center. Even after making a mistake there’s so many resources to own up to your decision.

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Anonymous #8 1d

That’s a great response. Thank you for your interesting take. You’ve really added a lot to this discussion.

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Anonymous shroomsandmusic 1d

“Easily chose not to have sex” you don’t know if they were raped, used protection, was on bc, tried using plan b, was lied to by a man on if he finished inside her. You don’t know her circumstances and we shouldn’t have to question women on how they got pregnant or why they chose to have an abortion. And with facing hardships don’t we want the children to have a good life? Why would you want a child to be born into a shitty situation? It’s selfish to force them into that when they didn’t ask-

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Anonymous #1 1d

To be born, they didn’t ask to be conceived by someone who doesn’t want them.

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Anonymous #1 1d

hey so actually the women who founded plan parenthood was focused on ugenics... particularly on reducing the black population

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Anonymous #2 1d

I dont care about the open future argument at all, I think it’s just simply always wrong to kill an innocent human being.

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Anonymous #1 1d

You can’t easily choose not to have sex the percentage of pregnancies that result from rape is less than .3% of all pregnancies. But those babies have no less value than we do. And you can literally choose to not have sex.

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Anonymous shroomsandmusic 1d

So do you believe that people who don’t ever want children aren’t allowed to have sex? Also let’s not act like .3% is still a large number when it comes to population(around 500k).

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Anonymous #1 1d

When you have sex, you accept the responsibility that you can get pregnant. Being raped is terrible. but just because something terrible happens to you doesn’t give you the ability to kill someone.

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Anonymous shroomsandmusic 1d

I don’t view it as killing someone bc they were never actually born. They never cried, breathed, or felt the air on their skin. Why would I value that over a person who has friends, family, memories, goals? I am with the women who make choices best for them not for what others feels is best for them.

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Anonymous #10 1d

Welp it’s a good thing planned parenthood isn’t the only place you can go to for an abortion!🤗 and abortions have been around for hundreds of years so it’s not like they were created to solely reduce poc

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Anonymous #1 1d

So someone’s life only matters if they have memories, goals, or relationships? What about newborns or people with severe cognitive disabilities? Why should someone’s ability to experience life determine their value as a human being?

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Anonymous shroomsandmusic 1d

So using my own examples here…have newborns been born? Have they cried? Have they breathed? Have they felt air on their skin? If yes to any then congratulations they are a person! Notice how my points all revolve around them BEING BORN so them having cognitive disabilities or being still born would make no difference on if they’re a person or not😱 I mentioned the memories and such bc typically if you are pregnant you are not a newborn or do not have cognitive disabilities🫠

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Anonymous #1 1d

So your entire argument is based on whether they’ve been born? What makes a baby five minutes before birth less deserving of life than that same baby five minutes after birth?

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Anonymous shroomsandmusic 1d

Who exactly is having an abortion 5 minutes before birth? At that point medical personnel will allow for an abortion bc the fetus can survive outside the womb. Just like how women get abortions in the first trimesters when the fetus cannot survive outside the womb. Those who get a second trimester abortion are getting it due to medical issues or before the 24 week mark, and third trimester abortions is also done for medical reasons due to mother being in danger.

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Anonymous shroomsandmusic 1d

what a horribly disgusting thing to say. you think abortion isn’t okay because it’s avoiding responsibility of their actions? by that logic people who get lung cancer from smoking shouldn’t recieve treatment right ?

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Anonymous #13 1d

That’s a false equivalence. Treating lung cancer doesn’t involve murder. nobody is debating about needed medical treatments. The debate is about does personal choice justify murder.

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Anonymous shroomsandmusic 1d

ur not using the term murder correctly. a fetus isn’t a person.

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Anonymous #13 1d

I love how I have 10 people are watching this as I argue with like what I imagined to be a few different people.And it’s just as much as a person as you are. You literally have to kill it if your grandma is on life support do you look at her and go hey you’re not a human and we’re killing you.

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Anonymous shroomsandmusic 1d

you think this is a person?

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Anonymous OP 1d

That’s a weird, very US centric argument to make. There are societies with much better care standards so you’re undercutting your own “under any circumstances” position by arguing in light of specific circumstances.

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Anonymous #13 1d

This is a human in every stage.

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Anonymous shroomsandmusic 1d

being against abortion bc it’s “murder” but having netanyahu as ur pfp … ironic

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Anonymous #13 1d

Hahahahahahahaha… what a burn!!!

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Anonymous #13 1d

😭 it’s satire

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Hey so this is a women’s only yikyak chat

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Anonymous #4 1d

Oh they didnt ask for my id sorry

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Guess you don’t know how to read the notices that say this is a women’s only chat and agree that you are a woman before joining 🙄 such a loser

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Anonymous #10 1d

**woman not women **eugenics not ugenics and u forgot a couple commas🙂

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Anonymous #4 1d

You are kinda dumb

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Anonymous OP 1d

When I refer to disability I mean like being autistic stuff like that where they can still have a life it won’t be completely the same but the government has programs now incase parents pass before their kids, I don’t mean kids who will be connected to a breathing tube for the rest of their life

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Anonymous #9 23h

They downvote but they’ll abort it if it’s a boy

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Anonymous #14 22h

people who get abortions late into pregnancy wanted the baby but something has gone wrong , risking the life of the mother or baby or both. you’re dense

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Anonymous #10 22h

And one of the men who founded NASA was a nazi. Does that change the good things they’re doing now?

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Anonymous #22 21h

A fetus does not equal baby and it’s not murder. Glad to clear that up for you

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Anonymous #22 21h

even if it was murder IDGAF! get that THING out of ME !!!!!!

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Anonymous #4 21h

you wouldn’t know if a fetus is autistic or not, otherwise there wouldn’t be so many autistic people who go decades without being diagnosed

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Anonymous shroomsandmusic 21h

and in the case of rape victims?

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Anonymous #18 21h

nobody who is pregnant for 7-9 months wants to get an abortion if they knew they were pregnant 😭 late stage abortion happens when the fetus or the mothers life is at serious risk & birth isn’t an option How are you so stupid

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Anonymous #16 21h

So you have no way to defend your argument so your pointing out grammar errors, LOL

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Anonymous #12 21h

Because that is the only way it is justified? The only other way you would get pregnant is from having sex out of your free will? The consequence of that can and will always be, a child, if your scared enough of that to not only risk your health by getting an abortion but taking a life, than you shouldn’t have willfully chosen to have sex in the first place, plain out immaturity and lack of accountability right there.

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Anonymous #20 21h

Fun fact! Those types of “abortions” are always protected! Whether you believe in abortion or not, no law will remove those 😉

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Anonymous #23 21h

The baby doesn’t deserve to die just because of the circumstance of their conception

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Anonymous #16 21h

You aren’t supposed to be Good job calling out that contradiction

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Anonymous #20 21h

That’s actually not true Not everyone is in the right state of mind all the time and people can have way darker morals than the average person

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Anonymous #9 20h

are you implying a fetus is a human being?

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Anonymous shroomsandmusic 20h

TERRIBLE take. Yeah let’s just punish victims of one of the most heinous crimes EVEN MORE with MORE life altering traumatic events while the rapist (statistically, almost ALWAYS) gets off Scott free. Cool. No accountability to the men, but sure, let’s punish that poor tween who wasn’t ever given sex ed and didn’t know what was even happening to her.

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Anonymous #2 20h

A fetus is a human being. You can give it a different name (though I don’t recommend it) but murdering a pregnant woman is still a double homicide.

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Anonymous #17 20h

yeah so you have to be BORN to be a human BEING. here’s a dictionary definition of a fetus to make it easier for you to understand: “In humans, the unborn young from the end of the eighth week after conception to the moment of birth, as distinguished from the earlier embryo.”

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Anonymous #4 20h

No way omg your the new age Einstein wow!

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Anonymous #28 20h

P.S. in the rare case that it’s a rape or any kind of abuse/forced sexual harassment that causes the pregnancy that’s a completely different story obviously.

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Anonymous #23 20h

May not know autism but you can find out if they’ll have Down syndrome or any chromosomal issues

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Anonymous #9 20h

That sounds like something Taylor swift and Travis would do and then release a song about it 2 weeks later lol

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Anonymous #2 20h

So they’re still correct lol. You’re just saying it has to be individual. They’re just stating that it’s human life.

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Anonymous #5 20h

Life starts at conception btw. Glad to clear that up for you 🤗

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Anonymous #20 20h

People like you should go to jail

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Anonymous #20 19h

no literally

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Anonymous #22 19h

people like you should GET A JOB! AND SOME PUSSY!

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Anonymous #22 19h

abortion is still legal in many places ! no reason for anyone to be jailed for exercising their rights to bodily autonomy

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Anonymous #22 19h

correct, a fetus’s life is not as valuable as an adults life

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Anonymous #28 19h

it’s not a baby or a child tho. many abortions occur before the point of it even resembling such. a pregnancy/ childbirth is an extreme sacrifice that can derail someone’s entire life. it’s never a pretty decision to make but it can absolutely necessary.

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Anonymous #2 19h

It’s starts its “being” when two different peoples DNA starts building a completely different human.

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Anonymous #2 19h

Like when my sister was pregnant and the baby “kicked” she didn’t say “aw I kicked myself” because her baby was a different consciousness… that was human (or so I’m told I still haven’t seen the baby yet, only felt it moving when she was pregnant)

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Anonymous #9 18h

No.?

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Anonymous #25 18h

It’s not a baby yet.

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Anonymous #24 18h

so all women should abstain from having sex while men are free to fuck anything? sex is a part of human nature. if you’re a grad student, a homeless woman, a teenager you’re not fit to have a child (obviously). what is with u guys trying to protect a “human life” that hasn’t even been born yet? why don’t u consider the life that has already been living - the mother? men enjoy sex without a “consequence” why can’t we? must women be violated to be granted basic bodily autonomy? like?

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Anonymous #24 18h

carrying out a pregnancy is more risk to your health than getting an abortion lmao.

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Anonymous #24 18h

im gonna keep exercising my free will by having sex, and i absolutely will get an abortion if i get pregnant, because that’s my fucking right and it’s legal in my state! and nothing you or anyone else says will change that isn’t that so beautiful that your opinion has zero weight on others choices 💕💕

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Anonymous #30 18h

see i’m all for a productive debate about differing opinions and expanding my perspectives but it doesn’t look like that’s what’s happening here, so i’m gonna stop engaging after this. what i said was that “fetus” is referring to a biological entity of human species, similar to, say, your uterus. life begins at birth, so a fetus isn’t human life—a baby is.

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Anonymous #24 18h

idk i think im pretty funny

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Anonymous #13 17h

☕️

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Anonymous shroomsandmusic 17h

The fact that we’re glossing over the rape part is crazy

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Anonymous shroomsandmusic 17h

“It’s satire!” I said whilst nazi saluting before a Jewish person.

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Anonymous #33 17h

Imagine being raped by your uncle!

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Anonymous #34 17h

That is horrible and I’m so sorry that happened to you. The baby is not at fault though, why does it deserve to die for someone else’s crime?

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Anonymous #33 17h

You wanna take it?

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Anonymous #33 17h

people who use protection can still get pregnant ! and even people who do make mistakes are still justified in terminating pregnancy. most abortions occur before it even resembles a baby. abortions improve a woman’s life if she’s not ready to be pregnant. being pregnant and going through child birth is a huge fucking deal and should not be imposed on someone that doesn’t want it, as “repercussions” for their actions. it’s disputable that you think women should be forced to go through that

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Anonymous #34 17h

If that would save its life then yes. Plus tons of people want to adopt children, I totally understand that victims would not be in the mental or financial space to raise the child and I fully support putting it up for adoption.

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Anonymous #13 17h

why would you choose abortion, outside of it being an unprotected right?

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Anonymous #13 17h

You’re right that protection does not always work and pregnancy is a huge deal. If you are not prepared to be pregnant you should not be having sex. Deciding that someone does not get the right to live because you can’t keep your pants on is evil. I don’t think anyone should be forced to be pregnant, if you don’t have sex you won’t get pregnant simple as that you choose (obviously cases of assault do not apply).

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Anonymous #33 17h

Okay I’m due in six weeks. In the Kentucky area. When can you come get it from the hospital?

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Anonymous #33 17h

“If you don’t eat food you can never get food poisoning” ahh argument

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Anonymous #34 17h

you’re saying if I didn’t pick it up you would abort it?

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Anonymous #34 17h

You can sign your rights away and go the adoption route, you don’t need to be tied to the baby after birth for your whole life

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Anonymous #34 17h

Except that we need to eat food to survive. Individually we don’t need to have sex to survive. Apples to oranges ahh fallacy

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Anonymous #33 17h

If you come get it when I give birth you will save its life, yes. Otherwise I’ll have to turn to less legal means to get rid of this thing. ‘Banning’ abortions only bans safe abortions. So maybe we’ll both die. Maybe that’s for the best.

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Anonymous #33 17h

sex is a healthy natural part of life, abstaining for the sole purpose of not being ready to be pregnant is unrealistic. everyone should practice safe sex, and if they still get pregnant they should do whatever is best for them. i’m on birth control but if i accidentally got pregnant i would absolutely get an abortion, and i would not feel bad at all for prioritizing my life! im not feel bad about terminating something that has no sentience or feeling

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Anonymous #35 17h

You can compare apples and oranges. They’re both fruits. And honestly it just sounds like you haven’t had good sex if that’s your take

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Anonymous #34 17h

No, I’m just not stupid. I’m sorry you were raped and have to carry now. That sucks. But acting like sex is some necessity the same as food is just delulu sweetie

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Anonymous #34 17h

Btw, pregnant and due in December with mine and my bfs son, so im quite aware of what good sex is like

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Anonymous #35 17h

sexual satisfaction is a huge part of some ppls lives and relationship. it’s very highly correlated with overall relationship satisfaction. acting like it’s some unimportant thing that ppl should just go without is naive as hell

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Anonymous #35 17h

Girl I know he lasted two minutes and went to sleep 😭

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Anonymous #13 17h

I didn’t say it’s unimportant. I said we don’t need it to survive. Fuckin hell we’re cooked

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Anonymous #35 17h

by saying that ppl should just go without it ur implying it’s unimportant

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Anonymous #35 17h

You also don’t need a phone to survive so maybe you should log off ❤️

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Anonymous #34 17h

Maybe you should do the same sweetie. And perhaps look into those methods you wanna consider for you and yours

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Anonymous #34 17h

If you’re carrying it to term then put it up for adoption! 1-2million families are waiting to adopt a newborn in the U.S

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Anonymous #35 17h

having his baby but he still hasn’t proposed 😬

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Anonymous #13 17h

Why are we correlating marriage to parenthood? Also, easier for the benefits thresholds if we’re not married. Not that that’s your business.

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Anonymous #35 17h

Because you are the one saying humans should not have sex except to procreate. Typically, this falls within the Christian doctrine of “waiting until marriage.”

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Anonymous #34 16h

No actually im not. I just pointed out that you don’t NEED sex to survive. I’m well aware we have sex for enjoyment. All I did was call out your sex = food analogy as stupid.

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Anonymous #33 16h

I will kill it if you do not take it from me.

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Anonymous #35 16h

Blah blah blah

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Anonymous #35 16h

being married to the father provides automatic legal protections, financial support rights, an shared parental status.

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Anonymous #34 16h

That’s all you have to say? I mean you did grow up in Kentucky so I shouldn’t be surprised you’re not all that smart.

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Anonymous #13 16h

And the legal protections already apply to me. Financial support is easy to get just like parental status. Either affidavit signed or dna test establishing paternity. I’m the only one who has any say over my child right now. Being married provides what you just said to the father. And im lucky enough even if I was a single mother to have my family and support.

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Anonymous #13 16h

I totally agree sex can be a healthy part of life but if you are worried about getting pregnant abstinence is 100% effective. The problem with abortion is it is entirely selfish. How did our worldview become all about prioritizing our lives and not thinking of others. It is not just a piece of mass it is a developing human. The child does not get to speak for itself. Only you choose to end its life

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Anonymous #35 16h

Baby why you stalking me 😭 someone’s pressed

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Anonymous #34 16h

You literally commented you’re in the Kentucky area. On this post. You’re either genuinely stupid, trolling, or both at this point.

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Anonymous #35 16h

In another thread 😭 why you seeking me out?? You had to remember my number and then find where else I commented. Fan behavior.

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Anonymous #34 16h

Oh, wow. You’re like….really REALLY slow

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Anonymous #34 16h

But why? out of spite? how could you live with yourself knowing you killed someone? Why not let someone who is begging for a chance to take care of a baby have it? You would deny a woman, a family that just so you can murder it?

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Anonymous #35 16h

Your boyfriend… has commitment issues… and I can also… use elipses…

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Anonymous #34 16h

And you have nobody 😘

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Anonymous #33 16h

I could live with it just fine. You don’t know me. Now stop blundering and agree to adopt my unborn fuck

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Anonymous #35 16h

☕️

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Anonymous #34 16h

I’ll take having a boyfriend and amazing father over having nobody in my life to help me raise a child

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Anonymous #35 16h

☕️ sure babe

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Anonymous #34 16h

Got nothing to clap back with hm? Condolences to your child, they deserve better than you but at least you’ll agree with me on that one

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Anonymous #2 16h

You’re talking about personhood, “life begins at birth”. Not scientifically. Thanks for trying though

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Anonymous #17 16h

They must not be talking about scientifically. Probably personhood, that’s my guess. They responded to my previous comment saying that “life begins at birth” which is false biologically so I’m guessing they’re just talking about from birth to death.

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Anonymous dark_blue_smiling_cat92 13h

What seems like a curse short term is often a blessing long term. While I don’t think your situation is as rare as some people might say, things do skip generations or are faced by the following. But I tell you each generation has the ability to break the cycle that created it, to choose to be the opposite of what brought it forth.

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Anonymous #38 10h

cry about it

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Anonymous #37 10h

I will. It’s disgusting that human beings think this way.

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Anonymous #38 10h

it’s the 21st century, we have evolved as a society to enjoy sex without using it as a means of reproduction, grow the fuck up ya whiney baby. sex is fuckin fun. it’s a normal healthy part of life and relationships. it helps relieve stress and strengthen connection with your partner. stop contributing to a sex negative culture ya fuckin bot

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Anonymous #13 10h

Well, crime, predator, and molester rates have dramatically increased ever since people stopped waiting to have sex until marriage. Look up the rates if you don’t believe me, and start before and after the Hippie emergence. It is sad how common it is now. Jesus knew that sex caused malice, hence why he told us to keep in closed until we are married. It’s sad, truly. Everyone who thinks this way needs to read the Bible.

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Anonymous #13 10h

The evolution of our society has gone so far off the intended trajectory, that does not make the evolution a good thing.

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