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If your bf has a girl best friend, snaps her nonstop, and she jumps to #2 on his besties list overnight—but he can’t snap you back because in his words “I’m always with you”… how would you feel? And no he’s not cheating so don’t even.
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Anonymous 15w

I’d feel ignored and upset. Whether he’s cheating or not, another woman shouldn’t have more attention than your girlfriend

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Anonymous 15w

I would be upset cuz what 1 said. Why would u ignore me if ur talking to other people on ur phone anyways.

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Anonymous 15w

He may not be cheating but it’s clear where his heart lies and it’s not with you. Since they’re so close this isn’t going to change so the question you have to ask yourself is are you okay being second to this girl for the duration of your relationship

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Anonymous 15w

Me personally? I wouldn’t care in the slightest. If he’s not cheating and the girl isn’t a treat to the relationship, then I’d say that’s fine. If she did anything to threaten the relationship (say he could do better, make moves, etc) I’d have a big problem. BUT! My attachment style is secure, and I understand that my reactions to these things may be different than others. I’d say you might want to talk to him about boundaries if it’s upsetting you, especially since a snap back takes two seconds

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Anonymous 15w

emotional connections w another girl is still cheating my luv 🫶🏼 even if they aren’t hooking up and overnight she jumps to #2, they have some type of connection and that might turn into physical soon

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 15w

She has a bf love and they’ve known each other since baby’s. His mom used to watch her growing up so if they ever did, it would of happened by now but so far she only dates white guys and my bf isn’t white

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