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I think I need to come to terms with the fact that I’m not my bffs bff. Honestly seems like I’m barely her friend at all this past year. We barely text, we live 20 mins from each other and only hung out 3 times this summer, I invited her to my lake house
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Anonymous 2w

And she never responded even with a no(we’ve texted and hung out since then bc that was the beginning of the summer but I just never brought it up again) and I texted her wishing her a happy start to school 3 days ago and I haven’t gotten any response

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Anonymous 2w

Yeah I’ve had to come to terms with this a while ago. It takes a while to accept it :/

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Anonymous 2w

I mean I know part of the main reason she barley bothers with me is bc she got her first bf and she spends a ton of time with him but they have been dating for a year now and she still spends like 90% of her free time with him. Which if that’s how she wants to spend her time and invest no time in a friendship then she can do what she wants I guess I’m just disappointed

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Anonymous 2w

i get you girl. for my best friends birthday last year i spent so much money and time on her gift and hung out w her and made her feel special and on my birthday about a week ago she did nothing for me and didnt even see me or get me a gift and she didnt even post me on insta or anything and were best friends. but her other best friends bday was like 2 days ago and she made her a whole instagram post and it just sucked.

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 2w

Omg that does suck, I’m so sorry, happy late bday🫶 mine is coming up soon and if she doesn’t text me then I really will have to reassess what happened and honestly this is something we should both keep in mind, you will find someone who cares the same or even more than you and also show that in a way you feel it too. Someday you’ll find a friend who goes above and beyond for your bday without you asking for anything at all

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 2w

This will be my 2nd bff to really break my heart, we’ve been friends since birth pretty much I think we’ve just grown apart

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 2w

thank you girl i really appreciate it. happy early bday to u too! you will definitely find a true friend too 🫶🏻🫶🏻

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 2w

🫶🫶thank you

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