I mean I know part of the main reason she barley bothers with me is bc she got her first bf and she spends a ton of time with him but they have been dating for a year now and she still spends like 90% of her free time with him. Which if that’s how she wants to spend her time and invest no time in a friendship then she can do what she wants I guess I’m just disappointed
i get you girl. for my best friends birthday last year i spent so much money and time on her gift and hung out w her and made her feel special and on my birthday about a week ago she did nothing for me and didnt even see me or get me a gift and she didnt even post me on insta or anything and were best friends. but her other best friends bday was like 2 days ago and she made her a whole instagram post and it just sucked.
Omg that does suck, I’m so sorry, happy late bday🫶 mine is coming up soon and if she doesn’t text me then I really will have to reassess what happened and honestly this is something we should both keep in mind, you will find someone who cares the same or even more than you and also show that in a way you feel it too. Someday you’ll find a friend who goes above and beyond for your bday without you asking for anything at all