Anonymous #1 10w

I just feel like I can’t say that tho like I feel like he’s gonna get mad that I didn’t like his joke or disagreed with what he said

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Anonymous OP 10w

That’s a sign you probably shouldn’t be dating him ngl

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Anonymous #3 10w

If you feel like you’re not allowed to communicate with him when he hurts you that’s concerning

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Anonymous OP 10w

if you feel like you can’t tell him your feelings bc he’ll get mad or invalidate you, that tells me there’s a muchhhh bigger problem at hand. especially over something so small like saying “hey it hurts my feelings when you keep calling me gross for something i can’t control”. that’s not a partner, a partner wants to make you feel safe and loved and cares about when they hurt you

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Anonymous #2 10w

I just feel like this makes me a crazy person who gets upset about small things. And then I’ll be a crazy ex who broke up with him cuz I couldn’t take a joke

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Anonymous OP 10w

no, you’d be a sensible ex who broke up with him because he invalidates your feelings, makes you feel crazy for being upset when he does mean things to you, and makes you feel emotionally unsafe

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Anonymous OP 10w

Absolutely not, you are not crazy in the slightest. To qualify as a joke, it actually has to be funny. What he is doing is degrading.

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Anonymous #4 10w

Nah leave them under his mattress. That way eventually he’ll smell it but be confused as to where it’s coming from

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Anonymous #5 10w

Have that mean flipping his bedframe over, he deserves it

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