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Sorry but “right person, wrong time” grinds my gearssss. If it’s right person there isn’t a wrong time, u go through it together. exception: if u make it clear u intend of reconnecting and actually just need time/space to work on urself.
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Anonymous 19h

i always thought “right person, wrong time” was like when you meet someone that u absolutely love and they’re like the one person that gets you, but then that relationship has problems so you decide to split and wait for each other to grow, you still love them and there’s no one like them but you still need space and time to grow before you go back

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Anonymous 19h

hear me out though, right person wrong time is valid, my friend and her boyfriend broke up cause he wasn’t able to keep going like work through long distance and stuff, BUT they still loved eachother so she considers it right person wrong time in life cause there was no other factors in the breakup other than distance yk

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Anonymous 18h

My take is that “right person, wrong time” only applies when at least one person is in a different relationship. For everything else though, if you can’t work through absolutely anything together then that’s not the right person, doesn’t matter what time in life you’re meeting.

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Anonymous 15h

No I definitely had a right person wrong time. We were never single at the same time and when we finally were, we were both starting our careers and it was just not the right time cause I didn’t want to give up my opportunities and we went our separate ways and then now 5 years later we’re together. I think if we had tried it back then it wouldn’t have worked out because we would’ve been to stressed and doing completely different things

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Anonymous 17h

no literally nothing stops true love

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Anonymous 11h

i think of it has sometimes you may have needed them more at a different time or would have had more fun or something if that makes sense. like lets say you had friends who didn’t stand up for you during year X and your current best friend during year Y would have been a great ally during year X

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Anonymous 6h

I also believe if it’s right person wrong time then if you split you intend to get back together. My bf and I were tg for 2 years and ended up splitting for a year because we were simply too immature and needed to grow as people then we got back together after a year and now we have been tg for 3 years and we are moving into our first house tg next week

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 18h

I feel like distance is one of those things u stick together and work through though

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 18h

“Anything” not including cheating, abuse, etc. obviously

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 17h

Exactly, The only situation where I think “right person, wrong time” is valid. When u need time to grow but and waiting to be together

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Anonymous 17h

nooooo i’m saying from HER side she said that, she’s not the one to break up with him, im saying it’s valid SHE said that, but if HE would’ve said that after breaking up with her than I say bs, yk?

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 16h

Okay yea that makes sense, I can see that, believing that it was her right person but they came at the wrong time bc of the stuff going on in the others life. I feel that.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 16h

But lowk. Theres never a “right time” u make it the right time but choosing to stay and fight for ur love

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 16h

i agree here i’ve been long distance with my boyfriend all 5 years we’ve been together and we love eachother to death so we make it work

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 15h

There’s not a “right” time for love but you can critically think and decide that a relationship is not what’s beneficial for your life at the moment

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 15h

yea but you ended up with them. the people saying this didn’t end up with the person lmao

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 14h

Okay but when u decided right person wrong time u weren’t together, u decided to not be together so that when you did try it would be the right time. We are discussing calling ur relationship right person wrong time while ur ending things or afterwards

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 7h

Well at the time I definitely felt that way. I didn’t know I would end up with him. I got engaged to someone else

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