no exactly. We don't even live in a dangerous neighborhood. I can take care of myself but there have been times I couldn't go places alone bc my Mom or friends were worried for my safety and I hate causing a fuss so seeing him write fanfiction about it pissed me off. Bc dreaming up scenarios where they're singled out as victims of random acts of violence is the closest they can get to actually fearing for their safety. And so many guys are like this, my own father included.
And their idea of victimhood usually begins and ends with lost property. It’s a burglar or a mugging or their car gets broken into. The scariest thing they can imagine is shooting a thief dead in their jammies or calling the bank to shut down their credit cards. Obviously men can be victims. They can also be annoying and insensitive.