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So as a 25 year old woman I’ve never been to a bar alone. Is that something we do? What do you even do alone? How long do you stay? What do you wear?
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Anonymous 9w

I’ve only gone to a bar kind of alone a few times. It was when I was in law school, and my friend was bar tending at this spot that had trivia nights every Tuesday. So I’d go early, do my studying alone at the bar, and then meet up with my friend and some other people for the trivia

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 9w

As far as going to a bar alone for normal bar things, I’ve never done it bc of social anxiety and safety

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 9w

That’s basically why I haven’t gone before. But I also don’t have any bartending friends either 😭 I went on a date to a local one I showed this guy, and he boosted how he liked to just go out and spark up conversations with people or like somehow someone talks to him. Like wow! 🤩 I want that bc I haven’t exactly made friends after college yet so. Idk what else to do

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 9w

I looove meeting other people like that, but only with the safety of at least one other friend 😅 I’m sure it’s a lot more feasible for men though

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