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Is it shallow to reject someone because they’re a dad and looking for a very serious relationship? I just turned 19 and I’m not ready for all that 😭
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Anonymous 15w

girl no that’s not shallow 😭 you’re barely an adult it’s very reasonable that you aren’t ready to be a mother figure lmao

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Anonymous 15w

No that’s completely fair. It would be crazy to date someone whose life and goals are so misaligned with yours

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Anonymous 15w

If you’re not ready for and wanting that kind of relationship you being in one would be bad for everyone involved. It’s not onto not shallow to, it’s essential to

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Anonymous 15w

not at all

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 15w

Okok I really needed to hear someone else rationalize my thought process for me tysm diva 😭

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