Girl Talk on Yik Yak | Need a male to explain how calling a woman “easy” isn’t major rape vibes. What exactly do you want from her? For her to not want it? To show no desire or enthusiasm? To get raped by you? Explain it. You can’t. Because that’s exactly what it is.

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Need a male to explain how calling a woman “easy” isn’t major rape vibes. What exactly do you want from her? For her to not want it? To show no desire or enthusiasm? To get raped by you? Explain it. You can’t. Because that’s exactly what it is.

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Anonymous 19h

I posted ab this one time and the general consensus among men was indeed that they don’t want to sleep with women that initially want to sleep with them, they want to convince them. Which often leads to coercion but whatever

Anonymous 17h

I mean I could be wrong but this is my take It reminds me of there was a guy who went to my high school, he would ask out literally every girl till someone agreed to date him, asking multiple girls in a day So when I hear the term “easy” it just to me signals low standards, like any guy is good enough, and I think a guy or girl could be “easy”

Anonymous 15h

I would say it is the same for men aswell though, anybody who is willing to sleep with anybody who trys has low standards. Obviously if you like to sleep around, go for it, but personally I dont want a guy who is easy either. I want somebody who is willing to sleep together when we are comfortable, know each other, as I view it as a very close bond not everybody is allowed to have.

Anonymous 17h

Do you mind if I repost this to ask men? I’m curious what they’ll actually have to say. I can ss the post so that way they’re not using it as a ways to get into our group

Anonymous 15h

We’re already in 😈

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Anonymous

#3 17h

To me it just means there is nothing special as to why someone picked someone else, yk?

Anonymous

#3 17h

That’s an actually really good point that can reflect self confidence issues on both sides depending on context. It could be either that the person who’s “easy” is only doing so to search for what they lack in themselves, or it could be that the person calling someone easy needs to feel like they accomplished something by getting with someone

Anonymous

#2 17h

I completely agree. Because I’m just considering if the tables were flipped and that guy from my example asked me out, regardless of his looks, personality, or character…and also regardless if I found him attractive…that trait was just a turn off, I did not feel flattered as I was just # whatever on his roster till he got a yes

Anonymous

#3 17h

But also I am positive there are guys who are weird and creepy like the post is talking about, but I think it is fair to consider that some just don’t want to be in a relationship or hookup or whatnot with someone who would pick genuinely anyone, because then what makes them feel “wow, she was into ME out of all these other people around, she said yes to ME, that’s really amazing and flattering and makes me feel happy” and instead it was more just for the fact they were available

Anonymous

#2 15h

Ofc

Anonymous

#1 12h

Men are disgusting

Anonymous

#4 12h