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How to stop comparing myself to and being jealous of my friend? I love her so much and I don’t want to feel negative things associated with her :(
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Anonymous 1w

Wdym? Like comparing how

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1w

Like how easy it is for her to get guys or how she always looks good without even trying or things like that

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1w

I’d say confidence. Confidence carries more than people think it does bc it’s actually one of the first things people know about you. You can tell within 30 minutes whether someone is confident in themselves or not. It’s something we wear on our sleeves and others pick up on so you need more confidence

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1w

How do I do that?

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1w

It’s a lot easier said than done but being comfortable in your own skin. Appreciating what you look like bc it’s your face after all. Knowing that there’s always prettier but there’s also no one else who looks exactly like you so appreciating that your beauty is unique to you and only you

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