
girl. genuinely thank you for this post. i’ve never felt so validated about this in my life. I have never come with any sexual partner, and I had a 2 1/2 year relationship and he NEVER made me cum. I couldn’t even do it to myself (masturbate) around him and cum bc it just would never come I once tried for genuinely hours. I think i’m broken. bc everyone’s response is always “you need to find the right person who knows what they are doing” you’d think id have cum by myself even…
usually its me going ham on my clit that makes me finish, but my bf still gives me head beforehand to warm me up/get me closer! its still pretty difficult some days and even on my own it can be hard. pillow under the hips works wonders and i deadass gotta be at an ANGLE for him to hit a good spot- trial and error 🙂↕️
Ok see like I think and hope that both you and me can figure it out but I do feel like sometimes other girls sorta shame you if you can't or say you have to break up with ur bf like trust he wants me to cum too but shit just doesn't work like that so easy idk. Like as much as I don't want this to be common I also feel so alone about it sometimes