i have had the same thought. you shame yourself for it because other people have gone through those things and they aren't good. but the world has created those things as "validation" when it really shouldn't even be that. i am sure you are not ugly. no one is ugly unless ugly at heart.

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Yeaaa. I’m aware harassment isn’t a good thing. But it makes me feel insecure when I’m never complimented or hit on

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