I was talking to this guy and things were going really well. However last night after a spicy ft call, he seemed to end the call as soon as he finished. I thought his phone might have died but he hasn’t responded all morning😭. Send help and advice pls
I hope it’s not what I’m thinking. In my experience, after guys get that release they want, they ghost
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Anonymous1w
We had also just made plans for him to come over this week. Am I being ghosted?
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Anonymous1w
I wouldn’t jump to ghosting right away. A lot of people don’t realize how important aftercare is and he might just be having a busy morning. Give him a day and if you talk to him again you should say that you’d enjoy talking more after doing something like that.
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Anonymous#21w
This was the third time we’d mutually mb over ft. (Twice our first call, once the second) It just doesn’t make sense because he was supposed to come over for the real thing😭
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AnonymousOP1w
Maybe he got cold feet?
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Anonymous#11w
I thought his phone might have died or he fell asleep waiting for it to charge. He seems to really like me, besides he was supposed to come over tomorrow so I could cook for him and then actually get intimate
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AnonymousOP1w
next time dont sext or esex before the actual thing (or at all tbh!! they can wait for when you see each other in person)