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I was talking to this guy and things were going really well. However last night after a spicy ft call, he seemed to end the call as soon as he finished. I thought his phone might have died but he hasn’t responded all morning😭. Send help and advice pls
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Anonymous 1w

I hope it’s not what I’m thinking. In my experience, after guys get that release they want, they ghost

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Anonymous 1w

We had also just made plans for him to come over this week. Am I being ghosted?

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Anonymous 1w

I wouldn’t jump to ghosting right away. A lot of people don’t realize how important aftercare is and he might just be having a busy morning. Give him a day and if you talk to him again you should say that you’d enjoy talking more after doing something like that.

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 1w

This was the third time we’d mutually mb over ft. (Twice our first call, once the second) It just doesn’t make sense because he was supposed to come over for the real thing😭

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1w

Maybe he got cold feet?

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1w

I thought his phone might have died or he fell asleep waiting for it to charge. He seems to really like me, besides he was supposed to come over tomorrow so I could cook for him and then actually get intimate

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1w

next time dont sext or esex before the actual thing (or at all tbh!! they can wait for when you see each other in person)

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