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blueberryballs

 trying to not be a people pleaser anymore is so hard, anyone have tips?
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Anonymous 1w

Don’t have any but commenting for when other people answer…

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Anonymous 1w

Push through the bad feelings. When you say “no. Can’t. Don’t want to, etc” you’re going to feel terrible. Don’t go back on those feelings because you have to tell yourself, “if I backtrack now, I’ll be a doormat to these people around me forever.” Be a bitch in someone’s fantasy than their mat in reality

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 1w

Ask yourself if you were in someone else’s shoes, would you let yourself be treated in certain manners? Or are you letting it slide? I also think the biggest thing is confidence. You don’t have to be confident. You just have to pretend to be confident. Be firm. Be yourself. And eventually, you’ll come realize you aren’t pretending anymore.

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 6d

thank you!

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