
I had a long distance who told me six months into long distance he secretly hated phone calls cause they make him nervous and he asked if we could just text from now on and I laughed hung up and haven’t spoke to him in a very long time bc wym talking otp with me makes you anxious and you don’t even wanna call anymore what kind of a relationship is over text🤮
Idk maybe I’m a weirdo but I like having a bit of personal space with romantic relationships and friendships. You can have love for someone but still want to have a bit of independence too but I guess everyone’s different. But I guess that’s different than never wanting to spend time.
Literally the besttt. My bf and I were long distance and we met and haven’t been apart since. It’s so refreshing having someone who WANTS to spend time with you like that. I never had it before I was like shocked when he would mention doing activities with me or seeing family with him like I was like wait…this is how it’s SUPPOSED to be
I think for me personally it helps that both my bf and I hate socializing 🤣 and we’re each others fresh air at least he is for me. Like I like being alone fuckkk yea I do but he grounds me i dont know how to describe it I sound corny as hell. He’s really able to calm my anxiety which is why I think it’s so easy for me to spend time with him because it’s like that refreshing feeling I got when I used to be alone