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It’s so hard to talk to ppl who don’t critically think bc you can very clearly say “external care should be child centered and about the child instead of the adult involved’s wishes” & you’ll still have someone go “so ‘orphans’ don’t deserve a home” 🤦‍♀️
Whenever I see a couple struggling with infertility, I’m like “please don’t adopt, please don’t adopt. Heal your trauma. Get a pet. Please don’t adopt”
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Anonymous 20h

Wow those comments are really braindead, like your post was a little hard to understand at first but once you elaborated it makes total sense. Ppl often adopt naiively and dont realize all the differences in adopting a child and birthing one

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