Anonymous #1 10w

i grew a cyst on my labia. i’ve never had one before so i was freaking out that it was somethin nefarious. doc told me it doesn’t need to be drained bc it’s not close to rupturing but that i should take antibiotics. then all of a sudden she randomly starts trying to aggressively pop it to the point i’m in tears w pain. i asked her to stop several times n she didn’t. then afterwards she said it was developed bc i wipe back to front but i’ve never done that in my life.

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Anonymous #1 10w

i said i don’t do that and asked if there’s anything else that could’ve caused it and she gave me a look like i just lied to her face. so i repeated myself (still crying btw) and she goes “well it could’ve been from a cut while shaving and other bacteria” but then on my discharges she put instructions on how to wipe 💀 it was so traumatic honestly i’m reeling 😭

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Anonymous #2 10w

omfgggg that’s so frustrating bc it’s so hard and expensive to see one doctor one time let alone go back over and over for the same issue 😭😭

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Anonymous #3 10w

broooo they always blame everything on weight but i have a strong theory that the majority of doctors (esp male docs) have no actual idea of what a healthy woman’s weight is 😒 idc if it sounds insane but i think they’re just as brainwashed by the media as the general population 😤

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Anonymous OP 10w

100%!! everytime i ask a guy how much he thinks i weigh (im 210) they say 180😭 like they love to comment on our bodies but miss by 30 pounds?? make it make sense

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Anonymous #3 10w

and most men think 120lbs is a healthy weight for all women when in reality it’s probably only healthy for like 10% of women 😭

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Anonymous OP 10w

REPORT HER!!!!!! this is SO unacceptable especially the fact that she kept touching you while you asked her to stop and didn’t even ask beforehand if she could. that is ASSAULT

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Anonymous #4 10w

i am so fucking sorry you went through that oh my god

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Anonymous OP 10w

not being believed when you’re telling the truth in general is already so frustrating. but dealing with that from a medical professional?? omg that would ruin my day 😭 i am so sorry girl. that’s so insanely rude

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Anonymous OP 10w

Unfortunately a lot of issues DO arise from women not knowing how to properly wipe but she should’ve just left it at that once you said you knew how. Im sorry :(

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Anonymous #4 10w

i’m seriously considering it bc the whole thing was SO overwhelming and embarrassing omfg 😓

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Anonymous OP 10w

no really i think you should. also to protect other ppl from having that same experience going forward. she should not be in a position to administer care while acting like that

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Anonymous #1 10w

ye and i get that! but my cyst is also super forward near the hood so i don’t even see how that was a reasonable assumption to make?

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