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I need advice. My bf and I have been dating 1.5 years. love him to death. Recently though, I’ve developed romantic feelings for my coworker that I’ve known a long time. I want to stay committed to my bf, but I don’t know how to get rid of these feelings.
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Anonymous 14w

It’s just the work air I swear it. Ain’t nothin there w the coworker

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Anonymous 14w

Stop talking to that coworker. Stop romanticizing the feelings.

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Anonymous 14w

i would stop talking to him. like deadass.

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Anonymous 14w

This sounds like the start of romance novel.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 14w

I can’t stop talking to him. Part of our job is that we have to work together closely every day.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 14w

Then stop talking about anything other than work. Or request a transfer or something. Don’t dwell on seriously messed up feelings.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 14w

I can’t change anything job wise, but I’m really trying to repress the feelings and see him only as a friend.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 14w

Don’t even see him as a friend. He’s a person you work with that’s it.

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 14w

An awful one

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 13w

I really hope you’re right

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 13w

I have to for my job. Like there’s no way to avoid seeing him or talking to him until I go back to school after the summer.

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 13w

I’m not trying to be a cheater

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 13w

i mean stop talking to him for things other than work.

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