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Im scared of having sex, I’m 18 and got my first boyfriend who is so experienced I’m scared I’ll be bad at it and it will hurt 😔
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Anonymous 20h

The sensations are uncomfortable at first but as long as y’all go slow & use lube it shouldn’t hurt! Will it be awkward? Absolutely & that’s okay! It’s reasonable to be ‘bad’ at smth you’ve never done before! Inexperience doesn’t mean sex can’t be a fun bonding experience! Communicate what feels good & what isn’t doing it for you. He should be patient with you & not force you to do anything you’re unsure about. Know that your comfort & safety matters always AND USE PROTECTION ‼️

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Anonymous 20h

With appropriate foreplay and lube, it’s unlikely to be very painful. And if it is, you can always stop. Remember, consent can be withdrawn at any time. Do you have a protection plan?

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