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I consider myself to be a feminist, but I saw that my cousin proposed to her boyfriend and I’ve never been more disgusted in my life.
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Anonymous 22h

why do you have such a problem with a girl proposing…it’s genuinely not a big deal at all

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Anonymous 1d

Maybe this is actually super feminist of her because she’s defying gender norms and taking things into her own hands?

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Anonymous 1d

Tf is wrong with you

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Anonymous 22h

in no world would I ever propose to a man lmfao they do not play about the woman they want to take off the market forever it’s giving desperadoooo

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1d

Tf is wrong with me? Tf is wrong with her?

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1d

Wanting to marry someone that’s about it

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1d

Proposing to a man who’s unwilling to propose to you is fucking stupid

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 22h

If you as a woman are proposing to a man, he doesn’t want to marry you. It’s as simple as that.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 22h

how do you know he doesn’t want to marry you though?? you’re just making assumptions atp

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 22h

Men have had it in their heads that they should be the ones to propose since they have been born. The only reason a man wouldn’t do it is if he had no desire to marry someone

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 22h

okay so what if a man was planning to propose but the woman he’s with beat him to it? what if they’ve had a convo and were okay with the woman proposing?

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 22h

Then he’s probably a low effort man. Still not a good thing.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 22h

so him having a plan to propose is being a low effort man…what drugs are you on

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 22h

If he’s dragging his feet so long that his partner has to do it, yeah pretty low effort

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 21h

it’s not low effort if he was planning a perfect proposal. and what about if they both discussed it and were both okay with the woman proposing? why is that an issue for you?

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 19h

Exactly

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 19h

Sure, but that man didn’t propose for a reason.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 19h

they like to play dumb lol

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