Girl Talk on Yik Yak | a man has been flirting with me saying he likes using chocolate and vanilla scented perfumes and that he drinks matcha with lavender 😭 I need to know if he’s a performative male or just bi or closeted /hj

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Girl Talk 1w

a man has been flirting with me saying he likes using chocolate and vanilla scented perfumes and that he drinks matcha with lavender 😭 I need to know if he’s a performative male or just bi or closeted /hj

Anonymous 1w

You gotta ask him for matcha recs (shops and matcha brand), what type he uses (powder/concentrate) and how he makes it (this will also vary by type) — if he’s performance then the man will crumble

Anonymous 1w

Def performative. If he’s serious, which you should be looking to see if you see him with any of those things occasionally, then he’s tootie frootie

Anonymous

#1 1w

I don’t mind if he’s bi. or even if he’s gay for that matter, but I really don’t want to be dating him for God knows how long and then he comes out to me. I’d obviously understand and support him but my fear is I date him and waste months or years on him just for him to realize 😭 it’s not that serious though, he could just be a man that likes those things

Anonymous

OP 1w

oh ya you’re totally valid for that. I wouldn’t want to mention it in case it hurts his feelings, but maybe you could bring it up in conversation? Just be like oh ya anyways did you hear about this situation that really matches this one… what’s your take on that 😂😭

Anonymous

#1 1w

I have two brothers like this and one is 100% gay and the other is 100% not 😭 I almost asked the gay one to talk to him and tell me if he’s picking up on anything

Anonymous

#2 1w

I mean I’ve 100% seen him drink matcha with lavander many times and I can confirm he smells like chocolate and vanilla

Anonymous

OP 1w

Oh I thought this was like an online thing and you hadn’t met him or seen him in person — carry on then 🫡