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My bf keeps rescheduling our time together and it's genuinely hurting my feelings and idk what to do. I tried to bring it up, but he said it's bc he's extra busy with school rn but then he does other random stuff on those days too
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Anonymous 6d

This is a case of if he wanted to he would. I’m a student and consistently have to work about 80 hours a week between work and school. My partner works two jobs. We both make time to see each other and try to balance what we need and ask for help so we can find that time.

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Anonymous 6d

It’s the “other random stuff” that’s throwing me. I understand prioritizing school but prioritizing “other random stuff” over your girlfriend is definitely upsetting.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 6d

That's what I'm saying. Like he said he wanted to do Sunday bc he needed to work done yesterday but he only did school work for like 2 hours and saved the rest for today.... I said can I still see you? He said hopefully but if not then Monday. Now he's watching football so I know I'm not gonna be able to

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 6d

Like he's getting his masters so the school work is hard but he's doing other things and he shouldn't have mentioned seeing me if the day wasn't gonna work bc I look forward to it from that point on

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 6d

I just feel like if he wanted to see me, he could've been like "come chill here while I watch football" but he didn't and then he's gonna have to do school stuff after

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 6d

He could’ve invited you to study with him too sometimes nothing needs to be said you just need the presence of someone else

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 6d

Yessss thank you. He's literally amazing other than this but it's starting to drive me insane

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Anonymous replying to -> glorbo 6d

You need to let him know that him not making time for you is hurting you and the relationship, and that if he isn’t willing to make time for his partner, then he isn’t in a place to have a relationship right now.

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Anonymous replying to -> glorbo 6d

If you feel wrong, it’s because something is wrong. You guys should work together to find a solution, but as it stands, I don’t think he understands how badly it’s hurting you

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Anonymous replying to -> glorbo 6d

No i genuinely don't think he does. I asked if we could talk about it in person tomorrow. So far, he's genuinely the best guy I've ever dated but I don't want to be flaked on constantly. If you're busy that okay, but don't make plans you'll have to cancel

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