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i found out that i’ll be graduating soon. my family dynamic is far from ideal. i want it to be a happy and positive day but i feel like with having them there, it most likely won’t go well. i don’t know if i should invite them or not.
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Anonymous 6w

if you have even the slightest suspicion they might ruin your big day, don’t invite them. if they ask, just tell them you’re missing a credit or something so you won’t be able to walk

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Anonymous 6w

part of me wants them there and the other part just doesn’t want to waste my energy. i don’t have anyone to talk to about it. just a shitty situation that’s meant to be positive.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 6w

they don’t even know that i’m graduating so they won’t ask/know if i don’t say anything. i really wanted to reach out to my brothers and invite them, but we don’t talk anymore. (i’ve made attempts, it’s not reciprocated.) i miss them, i want them there. but i don’t even know they would even respond if i asked. i wish i had just one person there who wants to support me

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