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Girl Talk 14w
Found out my bf has a 2nd secret Instagram account dedicated to porn… 1400 following including women that he knows irl as well??????? I made it so very clear before we started dating that I wouldn’t want porn in our relationship so Idk what to do bc +
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Anonymous 14w

break up not bc he watches porn but bc he’s an addict, lied/ hid it from u, and 1400 women??? that’s just weird

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Anonymous 14w

FOURTEEN HUNDRED

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Anonymous 14w

Sorry it’s a lot there right not but why were you with your bf during a time where he blocked you? If he blocks you then boom relationship done and he becomes an ex, like that is such a child thing to do in a relationship

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Anonymous 14w

He went thru my phone and saw some messages w one of my friends that I talked to during a time where my bf blocked me, so he’s accusing me of cheating on him the whole time w my friend but that’s just not the case at all lmao and I alr know if I try to leave he’s gonna assume that I really did cheat on him and that I’m using this as an out

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 14w

Like he’s already said “what you did is way worse” and that “it’s just porn” but idk bro

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 14w

and if he’s accusing u of cheating he’s prob cheating

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 14w

Also the convo I had w my friend was about my relationship, but I was just tryna confide in someone since I genuinely thought me and my bf would never talk again

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Anonymous replying to -> pinkraincloud 14w

I’m sorry girl that is an addict.

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 14w

I wasn’t with him then, but like he unblocked me and I guess we were gonna work on things. Then he saw the messages w my friend where I talked abt the relationship and yeah

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 14w

But yeah I totally agree tho the mf has blocked me multiple times and it’s so annoying and childish

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Anonymous replying to -> pinkraincloud 14w

I tried to tell him that 😭

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 14w

I second this^^ break up

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 14w

My ex didn’t start playing the unblocking and blocking game till after we broke up and I became so over it so fast. It’s so dumb and I don’t get how people do that and don’t feel like an idiot. Blocked him on my side tho so he not a problem. Praying your next bf is an adult tho and actually communicates with you about problems over throwing little tantrums

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 14w

A man that loves and respects you would not block you over fights and would not follow over 1000 women on Instagram for the sole purpose of his sexual gratification. I’m sorry, but you’re better off without him.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 14w

porn aside, this is wildly concerning. Him trying to convince you that talking about your relationship to a friend is worse than him lying to you is manipulation. It is actively dangerous to not discuss your relationship with ppl you trust cause that’s how women become isolated in a DV situation. I didn’t leave my abusive ex until I talked about it because I didn’t recognize what the abuse was, my friend did though.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 14w

the cheating accusation though…. Seems there’s a strong change he cheated on you and is projecting that behavior onto you. You gotta run. Sprint in fact

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