
recognizing it is a big step, especially learning how to recognize it in the moment, i personally have an anxious attachment style & recognizing when i’m starting to feel scared someone is pulling away and talking my brain through what is probably happening has helped so much ex: friend isn’t replying as fast as they were a sec ago, brain says oh no we did sm bad our fault, i have to say to brain “no life is life people get busy” & some other stuff but i hope you get it lmk if you don’t!