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So my bf was saying things he’d use to describe me and said ditsy and naive and followed that up with “ditsy is not a good thing but I say it endearingly” and like ik I’m a bit spacey and have a hard time remembering stuff but like that still hurt
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Anonymous 2w

Ppl have called me ditsy before and they think it’s fine bc they’re like “oh no, it’s cute!!” But ditsy and naive? Ouch. That shouldn’t come from your bf. I’m sorry :/

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Anonymous 2w

Ouch that hurts

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Anonymous 2w

Like I understand I’m 1000% book smart and not street smart but when I drove an hour to have lunch with him that was rude and I feel like he might get annoyed with me for bringing up how I felt about that comment and “it was in fun and he asked for me to say things to describe him and I said kind and can be blunt and his response to the last bit was “you don’t need to soften it”

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 2w

And he also said that innocent has better connotations than naive and it’s like both are not fun to hear, especially from your boyfriend

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