Yik Yak icon
Join communities on Yik Yak Download
Is a leash during sex too degrading to try with a relatively new hookup? I agreed to try it, but now I’m thinking I should tell him nvm😭
upvote 6 downvote

default user profile icon
Anonymous 22h

girl YOLO

upvote 1 downvote
default user profile icon
Anonymous replying to -> #1 22h

I just don’t feel like this guy even deserves it. Starting to feel like his test subject for sexual things. I like sex, but i’m starting to feel used. And he has said some things that make me think he likes me more than a hookup, but his actions show otherwise

upvote 3 downvote
default user profile icon
Anonymous replying to -> OP 21h

i mean you’re going to feel used if it’s just a hookup. that’s why i personally don’t really do them. but if he doesn’t deserve it then don’t do it for him. do whatever you want to do.

upvote 1 downvote
default user profile icon
Anonymous replying to -> #1 21h

No, not all hookups make me feel used. Some have been good in past. If ik were just fucking and we talk for a bit after hooking up, it’s chill. But idk, i’m getting in my head about this dude and starting to get the ick. I stopped having sex for months and idk, maybe i’m just strong enough for this shit anymore. I want a relationship honestly more than anything

upvote 1 downvote
default user profile icon
Anonymous replying to -> OP 21h

and that’s okay if you don’t want to do hookups anymore!! do whatever feels good for you.

upvote 1 downvote
default user profile icon
Anonymous replying to -> #1 21h

I just hesitate about deciding on no hookups bc it’s my only way to hangout with someone else. I recently moved back to my hometown after college and I don’t know anyone around. I don’t have any friends and I’m rly lonely, so socializing during hookups is rly nice for the few hours I get💔

upvote 1 downvote