
No, not all hookups make me feel used. Some have been good in past. If ik were just fucking and we talk for a bit after hooking up, it’s chill. But idk, i’m getting in my head about this dude and starting to get the ick. I stopped having sex for months and idk, maybe i’m just strong enough for this shit anymore. I want a relationship honestly more than anything
I just hesitate about deciding on no hookups bc it’s my only way to hangout with someone else. I recently moved back to my hometown after college and I don’t know anyone around. I don’t have any friends and I’m rly lonely, so socializing during hookups is rly nice for the few hours I get💔