i don’t know where to respond in that whole argument, but if i man is complaining about being lonely there’s a 97% chance it’s his fault. i fully agree with your point op, if they improved as people they wouldn’t have as much trouble finding a partner
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Anonymous8w
I agreed with the first part. The second was just cruel 😭
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Anonymous7w
There’s no such thing as rape culture. It’s called natural selection. Get better or suffer the consequences.
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Anonymous#18w
You know EXACTLY what type of m*n I’m talking about. Why do you feel bad for incels? They put in no effort.
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AnonymousOP8w
I don’t feel bad for those people, they’re bad people by making that choose. To be fair, I was thinking of the men that are trying.
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Anonymous#18w
You know they are alone for a reason right? Nobody is alone long term unless they deserve it.
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AnonymousOP8w
All men or just incel men?
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Anonymous#18w
All men
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AnonymousOP8w
No, then I don’t understand the reason. Can you explain?
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Anonymous#18w
Well not all men just the men that complain about being lonely
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AnonymousOP8w
Can you share what this reason is and elaborate on it? I agree that men that complain about being lonely are problematic but why
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Anonymous#18w
Because it’s their fault?
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AnonymousOP8w
Fault how?
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Anonymous#18w
Wym? Bad personality, ugly, mean, violent, poor emotional regulation, etc
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AnonymousOP8w
Ok I agree with most, but ugly? Isnt that too rude?
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Anonymous#18w
No? How much time do you spend on your hair or makeup in the morning? How long do you spend trying to find a good outfit or hairstyle? THEY DONT EVEN SHOWER
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AnonymousOP8w
But that’s being unkempt, not ugly.
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Anonymous#18w
Yeah but they can put effort into their appearance. Get a good haircut, dress better, workout, etc
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AnonymousOP8w
That’s fair.
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Anonymous#18w
If they are still ugly after than then maybe they don’t deserve love 🤷♀️
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AnonymousOP8w
Wowwww. That’s just crazy, girl. I just can’t
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Anonymous#18w
Do you want to date an ugly man? I mean like a genuine 2/10 not a medium ugly 5/10
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AnonymousOP8w
If he has good values and good personality and treats me right, why not
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Anonymous#18w
You would be proud to be with a man like this? You would like to have him meet your friends? Family? You could see yourself marring someone that looks like this?
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Anonymous#28w
97%? Care to explain that 3%. Imo it’s 100% their fault
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AnonymousOP8w
okay true, especially if they’re complaining about it. the 3% i left out was mainly just good men that don’t know how to put themselves out there/socialize
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Anonymous#28w
Well that is still their fault. There is so much information out there. They can educate themselves
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AnonymousOP8w
agreed honestly. and oftentimes when someone is most comfortable with who they are as a person and being alone, that’s when they’re actually ready for a relationship (ime anyway)