i hate to say it, but i’m really glad i never reported my rapist. i know perfectly well that i would’ve been accused of lying or falsely accusing him because i “regretted it.” she’s so much stronger than me because i know i wouldn’t have been able to handle that even on a small scale.

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Everyone saying she’s a wh*re and only reporting it because she regretted it, poor girl probably didn’t even know about the pictures sent until it was too late or the announcement inviting other men and putting her in such a dangerous position. I’m sick to my stomach because I’d hate for other young ladies be silenced because of the treatment Jane Doe is getting

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Most survivors can understand the perspective of not fully understanding what happened to you (especially if you were intoxicated or drugged) until sometime after it actually happened. I feel like people are only discrediting her for that because they have the fortune of not ever having gone through that

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i’m right there with you, i chose not to report because i knew it would just result in me being blamed and shamed publicly with zero justice. i was drugged on a tinder date that i willingly went on, by a guy that i probably would have willingly gone home with if the night had gone well. what i didnt consent to was being drugged, taken somewhere, and assaulted while unconscious but i just couldn’t see anyone caring about that part.

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