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My friend has asked me to be her maid of honor which I gladly accepted but she wants a full on bachelorette trip rather than than a crazy bachelorette party like I was expecting. My issue here is that there are 0 other bridesmaids so the financial -pt(1)
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Anonymous 2d

Girl if u don’t have the money she should figure something else out, esp bc ur a college student TELLING YOU LAST WEEK IS CRAZY DONT DO THIS???? Girl tell her off are u serious

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Anonymous 2d

UPDATE- okay I was an adult and talked to her about it and all is good🙌 she understands and we’re either gonna have her come to my apt in cola and go out drinking and do games and whatnot or go to hers in downtown gvl and bar hop with dinner and make a good time of it😌

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Anonymous 2d

She needs to adjust her expectations to meet reality. Expecting 1 friend to foot the bill for this kind of experience is ridiculous

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Anonymous 2d

Part is solely on me and I am a college student with no job rn and no week to take off especially considering it’s finals time and she wants this before the beginning of may which she told me LAST WEEK btw so I’m just really in a pickle bc I want to appease her but I don’t think her expectations will be met bc respectfully she’s a boujee girl but I don’t have boujee money🫣 and the movie like experience she is wanting is not really something a group of two can create. Pt (2)

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 2d

My idea for her is having her take a weekend and come down to my apartment in Columbia which I’ll decorate and we be go to dinner and then I’ll give her the option of having a paint + wine night or a crazy bar night then next day I’ll drive us to Charleston where we’ll just walk around shop dinner and beach and I’ll get a hotel room for the night and try to find a super cool brunch place preferably drag would be fun asf and then we can beach for a couple of hours and go home pt (3)

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 2d

This was the best I could come up with if you have any ideas let me know please but keep in mind I fr do not have the money for this right now and that was honestly stretching it^^

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 2d

Yeah she originally was gonna have other bridesmaids which I could of definitely done a whole thing then cause ya know split cost and what not but like girl😭 we are two ppl

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