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Girl Talk 5w
Advice needed. Am I valid for being upset that i wasn’t invited to my “best friend” getting engaged ?? Long story short I set up my two closest friends a while ago. They got engaged. Several other ppl were invited to her getting proposed to. I wasn’t.
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Anonymous 5w

Part 2: I thought I was friends with both of them and this isn’t the first time I haven’t been invited to something. My other friend said that means she doesn’t talk abt u much. Idk what to think.

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Anonymous 5w

Cut them off actions speak louder than words and people know what they’re doing. Either that or treat her like the distant acquaintance she’s treating you as.

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Anonymous 5w

Is it valid to be upset yes but I unfortunately think I had a few similar situations and eventually had to make peace with people showing me how much they value you me and feeling like I thought I was worth more to someone

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 5w

Would I be wrong to just unfriend them? Bc I just genuinely feel hurt that like I try to make plans and then it never happens but they can always hang out with other ppl and this kinda was icing on the cake

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 5w

What does unfriendly them as an adult look like to you in this case? If that means recognizing lack of effort and reciprocating then yes but but maybe that means only seeing them in passing

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 5w

Yes you should I friend them if they’ve shown you multiple times they don’t value you

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 5w

I was planning on just stop answering phone calls/texts and stop being there for her. She’s always calling to complain abt how he’s made her mad blah blah and like I’m over it bc then when I need someone she just shits on my relationship. And I lit confronted her abt how she hasn’t been a good friend like never hanging out anymore and she still never texted me and we only have dinner planned bc I texted her

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 5w

Ty I appreciate it

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 5w

id def cut them off, it honestly just sounds like she keeps you around so she has someone to vent to instead of really wanting to be ur friend and hang out

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