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Went on a the 1st date after my ex today. Was it boring? Yes Was it needed/healing? Yes
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Anonymous 4w

You got this girlie 👏

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 4w

Yeah and I might just be a bitch for saying this but I don’t even like the guy and now he won’t stop texting 😣 I feel so bad too

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 4w

That’s ok! All you gotta do is communicate. It might take time to trust/find someone else that makes you comfortable and if it doesn’t feel right after one date, then it’s onto the next. Don’t feel guilty for having your own feelings. Like I mentioned- just communicate with the guy and let him know where your head space is. Tell him that the date was nice (even if it was boring lol) but you don’t see it going any further

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 4w

Thank you. He was nice and all but not the vibe…

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 4w

That’s perfectly okay lol. Just be open, honest, and considerate when telling him. Don’t feel bad when you’re putting yourself and your happiness first

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