I feel like the reason he still lives there is important as well
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Anonymous9w
no it’s just not ur thing
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Anonymous9w
I feel like if he’s actively trying to get out of that situation in the near future is very different from comfortably living at home with no plans to move
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Anonymous#19w
ya i dont think id align with him financially☠️ which seems like a shit reason to stop talking to someone but i just dated a man who was horrible with his money and i just don't think i can date someone with little career aspirations again 😔
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Anonymous#29w
ya ig i shouldn't need to convince myself to keep talking to someone this early on too
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AnonymousOP9w
no it’s honestly an incredibly valid reason😭
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Anonymous#39w
he said he can't find a roommate rn but i don't think any reason would make me more interested ☠️
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Anonymous#39w
we've been messaging for over a month as well so i think im just over this penpal relationship i think this is my sign to say farewell to him
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Anonymous#49w
Like being in between jobs or some reasoning like that but actively applying yknow