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Guys any advice on how to make penetration less painful? I know I don’t have vaginismus. Each time we try it hurts so bad I need some advice pleaseeee. We want it to work so bad but each time we try we are unsuccessful 😭
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Anonymous 3w

Had this problem. For starter I’m extremely sensitive to most lubes so I had to cut those out. Second are you prepped enough I found out it takes at least 30 minutes of stimulation and massages to relax enough to fully enjoy it. If you are high stress like I am it takes alittle longer to be comfortable to take it.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 3w

This!! If you CAN find a lube that works for you, great, it really does help! But if not you really do need to be “warming up” beforehand, it makes a world of a difference. Find some stuff to do that you both enjoy, and remember the whole point of it is to have fun and be close to each other! If you put pressure on yourselves that something HAS to happen, that can really push you backwards.

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 3w

I have found a really good lube! It just burns at the entrance a lot. Like if he keeps taking it out to try again it burns in the front. We try and do a ton of stuff before we begin the penetration. Are there any positions or little hacks like putting pillows under your hips that I could try?

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