Anonymous OP 14w

Last year I realized I could lower my body count from 71 to 4 and I've stood by that

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Anonymous #2 14w

oh please. as if men do not become violent over body counts 🙄

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Anonymous #3 14w

that’s literally more of a reason not to lie. you rather stroke his ego than let him show his true colors? makes a lot of sense 🤣🤣🤣

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Anonymous #2 14w

i’d rather survive the interaction than have violence forced on me by an insecure man?? it has nothing to do with the man’s ego

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Anonymous #3 14w

okay so I’m personally talking about within a relationship nobody is discussing body count with random strangers on a street… and again if you’re at risk of violence your problem transcends your real body count like what are you even talking about

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Anonymous #2 14w

you’re ignorant if you don’t think men ask about body count on the first date lmao. and yes, misogyny does transcend any problem i personally have with my arbitrary body count.

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and they hate promiscuous women the most! they’re more likely to objectify a promiscuous woman and find reasons to justify their violence against those women to themselves and other men. men hate women that are in control and happy with their own sexuality.

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Anonymous #3 14w

you adding a bunch of hypotheticals about violent men has absolutely nothing to do with my original comment. in NEUTRAL, NORMAL situations if body count doesn’t matter there’s no reason to lie about it. point blank. the schizo ideations aren’t helping your case

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I’m definitely talking about disclosing to long term partners not randoms

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Anonymous #2 14w

lmfao you sound like a man that’s never had a “NEUTRAL, NORMAL” interaction with a man as a woman

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Anonymous #2 14w

do you think the women that have violence perpetrated against them are somehow prompting these men to attack them? by…saying no to their advances??? god i wish i could be this ignorant….

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Anonymous #3 14w

I said what I said now what

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Anonymous #2 14w

you’re not quirky or cool for being a part of the problem.

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Anonymous #3 14w

I can’t disclose my body count in fear of being attacked but I’ll just continue to engage with those same men without doing so … makes a lot of sense to a dumb bitch

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Anonymous #2 14w

who tf said i’d continue interacting with them?? lmfao had to jump to a weird and irrational assumption, huh?

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Anonymous #3 14w

why would we be disclosing to men we’re not dealing with .. make it make sense

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Anonymous #2 14w

you typically ask the other person about stuff that matters to you on the first few dates. if you’re a few dates in and a man asks what your body count is, it is safer to lie if you have a high body count. based off his reaction (or even the fact that he’d ask) then the person can decide for themselves if they want to continue interacting w that man.

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Anonymous #2 14w

i’ve even had men ask my body count at a bar when i didn’t know him more than 2 hours. like, it’s not that uncommon for men to ask women about this? and usually they do not have good intentions in doing so

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Anonymous #3 14w

and I’ve said at least twice I’m not talking about strangers or randoms but lying to long term partners. you and your wack ass downvotes are tickling me

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Anonymous #2 14w

you asked why we would disclose to men we aren’t dealing with lmfao i answered the question you asked

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Anonymous #3 14w

in other words why would I be talking about strangers once again like bitch you’re annoying

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Anonymous #2 14w

you have to meet and talk to strangers to date?? going on the first few dates is literally talking to strangers?? lmfao you make no sense

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Anonymous #3 14w

and once again I wasn’t referring to them stop talking to me bitch

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Anonymous #2 14w

you should read what you wrote bc atp i’m convinced you don’t even know what you’re saying hahahaa

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Anonymous #3 14w

bad built bored ass bitch 🤣🤣

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Anonymous #2 14w

somebody is having BIG feelings 😢

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Anonymous #3 14w

says the greasy ass bitch that’s been writing paragraphs for the past hour

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Anonymous #5 14w

Nope not wrong to lie about something that only affects you and no one else :)

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Anonymous OP 14w

Definitely get where you’re coming from. But if your relationship is built on lies then there’s no point. If your partner isn’t comfortable with your body count then he ain’t the one🤷‍♀️ granted he ain’t the one if he cared to ask in the first place

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Anonymous #5 14w

I wouldn’t consider the relationship to be built on lies just because of a made up number for a body count. Because to me that’s not a lie about anything that’s actually important, and a relationship isn’t built based on each other’s body counts. I agree that lying to your partner in general is bad, but for this specific topic I just don’t see it as a big issue. Truthfully, the topic shouldn’t even come up so I agree with you on your last sentence.

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