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i need advice. my bf of 3.5 years dumped me in july (“fell out of love with me and couldn’t be himself”) and i feel like i haven’t been as upset about it as i should be? like i miss him as my best friend but not necessarily a bf if that makes sense? 1/2
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Anonymous 2w

Don’t go looking for it, just let it come. Then the timeline isn’t on you, it’s on the universe

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Anonymous 2w

Girl you are just finally living life after the breakup. In every relationship I was in before I used to be like “I cannot live without you” but I survived the breakups. I made it out the other side and man it was amazing. I think that’s what’s happening for you. You were so used to him being a constant in your life and now he’s not and it shifted your reality. But now I’m guessing you’re going on to do other things that make you happy. Just take this time to figure yourself out

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Anonymous 2w

and idk like i feel like i’m kinda ready to date again now? but i also feel like that’s so soon i’ve barely been single for 2 months. and i don’t want to jump into another relationship or anything but i miss having someone to talk to yk? idk it’s weird bc i always said if we broke up i would be dead and not be able to date anyone for like 2 years, but now 2 months later i feel pretty good about it? i guess i just don’t know if i should force myself to wait longer or allow myself to look smth 2/2

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Anonymous 2w

Imo if someone breaks up with you, then you can move on as quickly as you want

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Anonymous replying to -> swimreaper 2w

Just don’t judge yourself (within reasoning like don’t go down a destructive path) cuz doing so is just a thief of joy

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