Girl Talk on Yik Yak | Is it unreasonable to still expect aftercare after 4 years in a relationship? Here recently it’s been like everytime we have sex he just goes straight to the game. Or he’ll go sit at the opposite end of the couch after.

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Is it unreasonable to still expect aftercare after 4 years in a relationship? Here recently it’s been like everytime we have sex he just goes straight to the game. Or he’ll go sit at the opposite end of the couch after.

Anonymous 11w

No it’s not unreasonable

Anonymous 11w

It is still reasonable to expect aftercare 40 years into a relationship, let alone 4, I don’t want to have sex with someone if there isn’t gonna be aftercare

Anonymous 11w

Like I’m not asking for him to lay with me the rest of the night but like give me 5-10 minutes of your time??? Especially considering he was on the game when he got there he got off long enough to have sex with me. Turned a movie on. I thought he wanted to hangout but immediately went to feeling up on me. And it just feels like “I asked you to come over to give me head. Not because I enjoy spending time with you.” He lets me stay over but I always end up just hanging out by myself for the night.

Anonymous

OP 11w

Not always but it’s been like this for a couple months now. Like he’s just loosing interest in spending time with me outside of sex. Sometimes we take walks here and there but that’s it.

Anonymous

OP 11w

We can’t get through even 10 minutes of a show/movie without him touching me. And we never actually finish whatever it is because he just goes on about his day. But he says me hanging out there and going on little walks here and there counts for something. The walks maybe? But me hanging out by myself is not enjoyable to me if you clearly just wanted to have sex and barely even speak after.

Anonymous

OP 11w

Also- sorry I’m an over explainer. I feel like you have to have the full picture to give a reasonable response 😂😂😂

Anonymous

#2 11w

Thank yall for making sure I know I’m not just dramatic or too needy 😭😭😭 like I know I’m not wrong but when it’s something he’s doing so consistently and seems to think it’s okay it’s not hard for me to start feeling like I might actually just be wrong 😂