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hot take but gay men are not with us. js because you like dick doesn’t mean you know what it’s like to be a woman. you’re still a man regardless of your sexuality. fuck all of you that disagree
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Anonymous 20h

it’s even worse to me because at least straight men will treat us with a sliver of respect if they’re attracted to us, and we can use that to our leverage. we can’t leverage anything with gay men because they could go their whole life without needing women for anything. at least with straight men they need us if they want a gf, wife, or kids.

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Anonymous 19h

yeah gay men can be some of the most misogynistic people I know. They think that because they’re not attracted to women they can make fun of them or treat them as less than human.

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Anonymous 18h

And white gay men are oftentimes superrr racist too, literally stealing aave like it’s candy

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Anonymous 17h

especially when gay men make threats towards woman because they’re a “gay feminist” like that’s not how it works. you’re a man who made a threat to a woman.

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Anonymous 17h

Fuck you if you disagree is such a healthy vibe

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Anonymous 14h

I’ve seen some gay men that are way too comfortable making misogynistic remarks

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Anonymous 19h

Literally bro

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Anonymous 13h

especially to regina george gays who bully women all the time over literally anything "as a joke" and it's really just misogyny

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Anonymous 17h

Preach this

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Anonymous 9h

i’m a bisexual man but i really agree, i see way too many gay men just use the terms b**ch and c**t in the same vain as slurs. it’s disgusting. they think they get a free pass to call any woman they don’t like the c word. disgusting behavior.

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Anonymous 12h

Genuinely I think some of the worst misogynists are just gay guys who haven’t realized the reason why they have women so much is because they like men and deny that fact because then they’d be like women

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Anonymous 13h

yeah regardless of if they’re a log cabin republican, gay men are not women. they are men. same goes for trans men

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Anonymous 8h

Facts bro!!

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 20h

fucking preach

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 14h

Straight men HATE women. There are some bad gay guys out there but the majority love and respect women. It’s the complete opposite with straight guys

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 14h

Wait til you find out how women treat men they don’t find attractive. I think it’s just a thing people in general do - not just men. It’s a bad thing but women are guilty of it too

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 13h

this irritates me so bad. i have no idea why they think it's okay or why it's become so big in the queer community.

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Anonymous replying to -> #12 13h

i mean yeah trans men aren't women but unlike cis gay men, they have been women before and have very often experienced misogyny themselves.

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Anonymous replying to -> #9 11h

Right, and that’s why gay men ALWAYS refer to women as “bitch” that’s not respect

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Anonymous replying to -> #14 9h

Its only the way other girls call eachother bitch. You can call a gay guy bitch. And im gay and definitely do not call ladies bitches unless they do it first.

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Anonymous replying to -> #12 9h

Frankly ive lived a girl a long time so i definitely get the girl experience and can have a say! Im not going into spaces unless for safety though, nor do i belittle women like some do

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 8h

You’ve probably seen that white guy on tik tok then. Well I think he’s white?? But he’s gay obviously and has like huge lips. He’s pretty popular. I’m gonna find his name but whenever I see him or that Landon guy, it just feels like cosplay or mockery. The AAVE and mannerisms feel like costumes, it’s so icky

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Anonymous replying to -> #15 8h

but it’s not directly that way. not everyone is like you are, a lot of them will just start throwing around bitch. and you won’t feel the impact of the word bitch the same when you’re called it than when we’re called it. it’s just different.

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Anonymous replying to -> #16 6h

Leave

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Anonymous replying to -> #11 5h

A lot of the time it goes black women > gay black folk > gay white folk > mainstream. Then by the time it hits mainstream, it's a "gay thing" because that's the last place it was co-opted from

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