
it’s even worse to me because at least straight men will treat us with a sliver of respect if they’re attracted to us, and we can use that to our leverage. we can’t leverage anything with gay men because they could go their whole life without needing women for anything. at least with straight men they need us if they want a gf, wife, or kids.
You’ve probably seen that white guy on tik tok then. Well I think he’s white?? But he’s gay obviously and has like huge lips. He’s pretty popular. I’m gonna find his name but whenever I see him or that Landon guy, it just feels like cosplay or mockery. The AAVE and mannerisms feel like costumes, it’s so icky