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This guy I haven’t been able to stop thinking about for three weeks asked me out last weekend. I was so nervous. Now he barely snaps me and I saw him walking w/ another girl. I don’t want to sleep with him but I want to be the one w/ the last say help
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Anonymous 3d

What happened in between him asking you out and now?

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Anonymous 2d

Dm me I can make you feel better;)

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 3d

Nothing. He keeps snapping me less and less. Won’t text. I hinted I wanted to see him Monday at the gym but he didn’t come bc he was busy. I responded less Tuesday and now Wednesday I barely get any snaps and I see him walking with a beautiful girl

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 3d

To clarify, when you say he asked you out last weekend, what did he ask you out to? A dinner date, movies, coffee, just a hangout, or a declaration of “I like you”?

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 3d

Lunch. I was so awkward tho I think I ruined it

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 3d

That’s rough though, it’s hard when it fizzles right after something good happens. In the end, the only thing you know is that you’re talking less. Maybe they’re more busy or maybe they are talking to someone else. Can’t know unless you see/hear definitive proof.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 3d

Everyone has bad days. Honestly I’ve just been trying to have fun in any interaction, if you go into it with any expectations you’re gonna be let down. The best way to do it is just to have fun and be present. I hope that helps.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 3d

I saw him walking with another girl like 😂?

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 3d

People walk with their friends all the time? Is he not allowed to have friends that are girls…

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 3d

I think he’s a player. Also the way he looked at her: 😍

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 3d

Well if he’s a player why do you care. Move on girl, screw him, nobody needs somebody who’s out here for everybody

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