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okay so this guy i’m talking to said “I don’t want to have to constantly reassure you, I’ll end up biting myself up. Don’t put me on a pedestal, I want to be equals” AND i totally understand that, i’m not trying to be whiny and constantly wanting him to..
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Anonymous 16w

u guys are simply not compatible and pursuing a relationship what hurt both of u. i hate having to reassure people it’s annoying to me idk why but that’s the way i am but i also don’t like being reassured cuz i don’t need to be i find it uncomfortable and off putting. there’s someone out there for everyone

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Anonymous 16w

praise me BUT my love language is definitely words of affirmation and I don’t know how to explain that to him

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Anonymous 16w

That’s like a bare minimum

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Anonymous 16w

i see both sides tbh. i also need reassurance sometimes, but i can see how that would be frustrating to constantly have to reassure someone. yall just may not be right for each other

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Anonymous 16w

Bro what

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