i feel like unless you’re 1000% sure you want kids you shouldn’t have them, just bc of how much labor and effort goes into raising them

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I’m never gonna agree with the idea having kids is selfish when it literally takes over your whole life lmao if anything it’s selfless

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Only if you feel 100% ready and financially stable to the best of your abilities— be ready to process and disability or mental health issues they may have, if they may be queer or not, what networks of support you may have around, etc etc.

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