Anonymous #1 13w

I have attachment issues so yay

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Anonymous OP 13w

It’s like I like him, I like him not

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Anonymous OP 13w

You could always cheat

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Anonymous #1 13w

Ew no

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Anonymous OP 13w

Good answer you pass

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Anonymous #1 13w

I hate myself why am I like this

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Anonymous OP 13w

Wait did you cheat

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Anonymous #2 13w

I think it’s cuz I like him but not his family so I think that his going to have a separate life with me but his not his family is heavily involved in his life. I keep hoping he can separate but he can’t

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Anonymous #1 13w

No I didn’t, I just hate that I’m attached. Tbh I feel like I should break up with him and this isn’t the first time I’ve felt this way but I never do, I can’t even ask for a break cuz I don’t believe in breaks, I feel like if u need them it isn’t meant to be. And I don’t wanna imagine being single ever again

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Anonymous OP 13w

Wait you expect him to leave his family for you?

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Anonymous #1 13w

No, not completely. In our culture parents live with the eldest son even when he gets married, it’s been happening in my house my entire life. My bfs grandparents passed when he was young and his family lives independently. When I tell u after marriage u need to live with ur wife and kids only, that’s truly a blessing. I can’t live with in-laws, every man in my culture, yeah my mom isn’t like that then come to be mammas boys I can’t. He can be connected with fam but some distance after marriage

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Anonymous OP 13w

Is needed. Like his an engineer and his sister “borrows” money from him, and his dad takes like $1500-$2000 a month from his salary. Like his a great man for that and I appreciate it but he was meant for his parents retirement and that’s fucked up. I have been independent almost my entire adult life, his family shouldn’t have that much of a hold on him. His an engineer and can’t afford shoes without holes, that’s sad

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