
Men like that also don’t understand that you have to actually offer something that we DON’T already have. Money? We have it now. Housing? We have it now. Cars, jobs, a social life? We have it now. If you’re not offering good treatment or anything beyond those things why would we marry you for the hell of it?
Yes I remember marriage and having a family to go home to being like a thing of torture for men. Like they dread the whole process and then go talk shit at work about their families and wives for eternity while they cheat to different degrees depending on how attractive they are. Now they genuinely are getting pissed when you, as a woman, don’t want that
Exactly! Like those kinds of things men have been doing and saying have been happening for so long toward women, so they really shouldn’t be surprised when we’re fed up with it and loving ourselves enough to stay away from the kind of men that fit those toxic behaviors. The lack of self awareness on those kinds of men is astonishing