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Because I don’t want to is a valid reason
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Anonymous 7w

Okay but real. I shouldn’t be forced to what something I don’t want to do

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Anonymous 7w

this is so real but the people pleaser in me always wants to say yes even if it’s an inconvenience🥲

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Anonymous 7w

and because I said no!!!

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Anonymous 7w

I think yes in most contexts. If it’s with someone you have a deep relationship with and they really want to do something and your answer is just “I don’t want to” with no explanation for your answer then it can be really confusing and hurtful to the other person.

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Anonymous 7w

My favorite is when the characters don’t know each other yet and are on their own separate journeys and eventually those journeys collide and create this big beautiful masterpiece (Priory of the Orange Tree)

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 7w

No one is owed a deep explanation about why you don’t want to have sex with them😭 if you don’t want to then you don’t want to, and that should be completely fine with you.

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 7w

This is not about sex, don’t project

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 7w

I agree, for people you love you should be willing to sacrifice a little and do things you don’t necessarily want to do sometimes. Not all the time, though

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 7w

Exactly the point I was trying to make, thank you 🫶

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Anonymous 7w

What does that have to do with anything

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Anonymous 6w

What??

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Anonymous 6w

i’m working on it 🙏🏽

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