used the women’s locker room yesterday as a trans woman and guess what happened? nothing. no stares, no questions, one or two friendly conversations. no one gave a fuck. it’s almost like i’m not a threat to women’s safety and i just wanted to change 🤔🤔🤔
Idk how people even notice tbh because I’m not even looking at others when I’m in a bathroom or locker room 😭
15
Anonymous1d
Im so glad you were able to do that safely, i feel so scared for my transfem friends cuz as a masc lesbian i get kicked out of bathrooms/locker rooms frequently
12
Anonymous1d
From another trans girlie, I just want other women to feel comfortable. And they are cuz we just wanna change or pee!
8
Anonymous1d
Trans girls unite 😛
5
Anonymous#11d
i’m so sorry 🫂 it’s getting rougher for queer ppl everywhere and it sucks that transmisogyny is getting so violent that even cis people are feeling its effects. i’m lucky to pass as cis but ik not everyone has that same privilege, i really feel bad for my community
11
AnonymousOP1d
Well im not exactly cis but youre so right, even in really gay/trans places transmisogyny permeates all gendered spaces it sucks so bad i feel for my trans sisters sm
7
Anonymous#11d
sorry i called you cis twin, but yeah transmisogyny is getting even worse to the point where political campaigns focus almost exclusively on being transmisogynistic when it comes to lgbt issues
10
Anonymous#21d
This right here. I’m uncomfortable with the thought of seeing anybody’s bits regardless of what said bits may be. Eyes averted at all times
3
Anonymous#31d
same lol, that’s why i go to the shower/stalls to change
4
Anonymous#61d
Yes babes!!
1
Anonymous#41d
I want to make trans girl friends on campus but i feel like alot of have that resting bitch face thats hard to approach
1
Anonymous#61d
I pass surprisingly well for being on HRT only 6th months, and i don’t really relate to any of the trans girls here. All of them get really flirtatious because they like how feminine I am. I’m on the rainbow floor of my school and it’s so bad I almost moved dorms
3
Anonymous#41d
I’m at DePaul I’ve been on hormones since 15 and 10 months and I’m 22 now but I haven’t been consistent this whole time so I don’t feel I pass as much as I would like to so I’m trying to be consistent now
4
Anonymous#623h
i’ve been on hrt for two years and four months ever since i was 18 and the last time i got sir’d was almost two years ago c: i’m really lucky to pass but it’s mainly because i spent years training my voice so it never deepened at all
3
Anonymous#423h
also i’m really sorry ;-; i notice a lot of trans girls tend to think they can flirt and be sexual with others just for being trans and it sucks when you want platonic friends if i make sense
1
AnonymousOP23h
See I try but it just feel so forced to me so I actually have an appointment next month for voice feminization surgery consultation
1
Anonymous#622h
lowk kinda lucked out by training when i was 15/16 so i never had a gay voice phase
1
AnonymousOP22h
Wow is this really a thing none of my trans sister have ever flirted with me before but maybe that’s a white trans girl thing not to be funny or anything
1
Anonymous#622h
No seriously. I had just turned 18 and my 25 year old trans conworker was like basically coming onto me and would always wanna look at my boobs
1
Anonymous#422h
Omg that crazy i never experience that before
1
Anonymous#622h
I told her I needed to get a bra, but didn’t know my cup size. So she told me to let her see, to which I raise the box I was holding to cover my boobs. Which is when she steps to the side to look down and at my boobs!
1
Anonymous#422h
Oh wow that crazy sorry you went through that
1
Anonymous#615h
i’m desi tbh it feels more like a chronically online sapphic tgirl thing (coming from a bi girlie)