I have no idea what they’re talking about and this person is obviously a moron but it doesn’t seem like they’re saying valuing purity is better than ambition? Just that they believe men and women look for and value different things in a partner (again I don’t agree and I think they sound pretty fckin dumb but that’s my interpretation of this)
No fair, but the implication is that both of these viewpoints are acceptable and also that all men and all women think the same. This is in response to being called a slut and me asking if the man was also a slut (fwb type thing), he was basically giving me a lecture on how my sordid non sexual history would make me a bad potential mate