good luck girl. the hot ones are weird. the nice ones are incels. etc. it sounds lame but try meeting a guy in person. genuinely just asking men for their number will either work or give you rejection therapy. also it helps bc you can tell if they’re secretly 2 feet tall/stinky/dress badly. i met my bf in person and we’re going strong. best places to meet them are places where it’s not super weird to talk to a stranger and where you’ll have common interests
good places are: malls, book stores (barnes and noble especially), thrift stores, cafes around medical clinics (if you’re aiming for a doctor), concerts, bars (NOT CLUBS), gyms, classes if you’re in school, jobs if you work, and anywhere else where the activity is something else (like shopping, working out, class, etc) instead of just each other like a regular dating app