She just says how she'd do it differently and I've said how that hurts me but she says it "isn't negative it's just an observation"

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Tbh try distancing yourself from her, physical location or mentally. It might help you grow closer. Also call her out on her shit. My mom and I hated each other in hs (and I still massively disagree with her on things) but we’re much closer now

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I’m so sorry you’re going through this girl. I know it’s not overly helpful but my reaction when my mom pulled this shit was just doing the opposite of what she wanted for a while then when I started acting normal again the comments weren’t very often😅

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She sounds kind of narcissistic though and Im so sorry thats not fair to you.

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