Anonymous OP 6w

I’m sorry you were mislead and manipulated like that, and I’m glad you’re out of that situation and taking care of yourself and looking out for others! 🫂

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Anonymous #2 6w

💯!!

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Anonymous #3 6w

Also would say that’s borderline SA and I hope he gets what he deserves!!

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Wow hurting the victim. Get your dick off this forum…

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You do. Your entire being.

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I’m not talking biology.

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Anonymous #2 6w

thank you:’) idk it’s definitely made me feel even worse abt the whole thing since it’s happened. i felt like i overreacted and i definitely did in a way. but yeah no i have not talked to him since june and never plan to again. he ghosted me when i realized he got weird after being a caring man the whole time once he ya know…paid me for sex…which i didnt rlly understand that’s what it was to him bc we did agree to have a emotions involved when really he just played w mine to fulfill some sick

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Anonymous #2 6w

idk kink idefk. i’ve been beating myself up for not realizing what it was sooner either as we met a few times and it was always off but i was rlly hoping it was deeper than it was both bc sure i liked him but also bc i think i was just lowk coping. it didn’t hurt bc he left, it hurt that he left me turning me into something i never wanted to be & expressed to him that

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Anonymous OP 6w

This would go under sexual misconduct in my opinion. Maybe not necessarily SA. But certainly unwanted sexual contact. You are a survivor sis. Don’t beat yourself up over it. He’s a bad man and you’re a strong woman. You have a great future ahead of you. He doesn’t. I’m rooting for you!

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Anonymous #3 6w

idk abt that. i wanted the sex bc i did like him too. i never rlly just knew ig it was just this fuck for $ rq thing idk bc i also was very inexperienced. and now im 99% sure he lied abt being new to this too and used that to his advantage bc he could get away not showing me what we should talk abt before going further. i rlly didn’t focus on money. i knew things like gifts or money were possibly there sometimes. but i just wanted to earn someone’s care enough to where they want to help a little

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Anonymous #3 6w

ah sorry i keep ranting abt it. i honestly have not thought abt it that much besides when im rlly down and u remember what i did to myself. this makes things just worse for me again but in new ways now. thank you tho. it rlly fucked me up in some ways the whole summer lol

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Anonymous #3 6w

thank you :’) idk i’m not like a survivor just someone who doesn’t think abt things well enough until after the fact and i realized so many mistakes that i could’ve not made to prevent this. idk i just feel gross. and i feel bad for his gf too bc it looks like she has kids (from another man i think) but they’re close to him. idk i don’t wanna ruin shit but i also felt it wasn’t fair for me or her he just gets to lie and do gross things and live this good life while secretly hurting multiple ppl

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Anonymous #1 6w

it’s okay. there’s a lot of things i missed too. i’m just hoping she sees my message but am glad that that maybe this means it’s officially just done and gone from me 🩷

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Anonymous OP 6w

You don’t need to apologise for anything! You deserve healing and I hope you can find it sooner than later ❤️

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