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Girl Talk 16w
Is it reasonable that as I’m debating whether or not to stay in my four year relationship one of my cons is “has never bought me flowers even though I’ve never said I want them” or am I just nit picking
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Anonymous 16w

well i think you should first tell him you want flowers and see what his reaction is/ if he gets them. Closed mouths don’t get fed

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Anonymous 15w

Hmmm idk cuz while some people aren’t into them, it’s generally acknowledged that flowers are a nice gift. If he’s been getting you chocolates or making you a gift that’s equiv I’d say it’s not that bad, but if what you’ve been getting (or not getting) isn’t as thoughtful/meaningful as receiving flowers then I’d take a step back. I never said to my bf that I wanted earrings or an orchid, but he knows me enough that I’d enjoy those things. I’m sorry girl 💐 good luck

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 16w

I understand that and we’ve had convos about showing more effort. However, not seeing it and I feel like having to ask for the most “gimme” relationship gesture is lowering myself to a place a don’t want to be

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 15w

Girl I get nothing unless it’s my birthday or Christmas. 💀

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 15w

:( you can find better babes I’m sorry

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